The more and more I live in this lifestyle the more and more I'm perplexed by an issue that is no bigger or smaller than one makes it really.
If a Top/Dominant/etc is competent in a certain set of skills, they are basically expected to perform said act for whomever comes a-calling to get said skill, aka "Service Topping." It is a great thing to do for the sake of helping out new people figure out what they want but there is much more to that as well.
Ignixia is an international kink and alternative sexuality educator. The following blog entries range from educational information and resources from her classes to daily musings had on things occurring in the world.