Intensives
All intensives run between 2.5 - 3 hours long
Kink Educator - From Hobbyist to Pro
Aristotle once said "those who know, do. Those that understand, teach." When it comes to BDSM and kink education, the sentiment holds true and is often the difference between learning a skill, and making a connection. As an educator we have an opportunity to make those connections whether we are giving a quick "how to" demo or teaching a packed hall.
How do we take our passion for learning and teaching and make it more than a hobby? In this class we'll cover going from skill instruction/demos to class creation, and how to promote yourself as an educator to get bookings and maintaining work as a professional educator.
“If You Want Blood (You've Got It)"
Are you a fan of blood? Need more of it in your play? Well, if you want it, you've got it!
Before we get into the play itself, we'll cover the nitty-gritty of handling blood and sharp-pointy things. This portion of the class is essential to understanding blood-borne pathogens, personal protective equipment, and disposal techniques. We'll also cover what to do when accidents happen, because you never want to hear "oops" mid-scene.
Next we will move onto the basics of needle play! From straight sticks to "pain buttons" and so much more, this section is all about turning your bottom into your own personal pin-cushion. This portion finishes off with a variety of ways to get the most blood when removing needles.
Want more blood? Good! It's time for scalpel cuttings, both quick and decorative. Whether you're looking to simply make them bleed or to turn your bottom into a bloody canvas, this section has just what you're looking for with scalpel-play. We'll also cover a couple alternative toys that leave cutting marks and make a bloody mess.
The finale of our class will be blood cupping! Make sure to brush up on your fire-cupping skills before this section as we're diving head first into applying cups to the wounds we've created for maximum blood pull. Lastly, hopefully there are no weak stomachs in the crowd as we paint the skin red with our freshly obtained blood.
You want blood? You got it!
Fantastic Foundations of Flagellation: Everything You Need to Know About Flogging!
Love flagellation? Come to the class where we'll cover everything you need to know about one of the most versatile kink toys out there! As the creator of award-winning floggers, we'll cover what to look for in high quality floggers and how to get the most for your money. Next, we'll cover flogger safety, strike zones, scene basics, and bruise care so you can take your play from mild to wild with confidence. We'll also cover basic flogger care so you can keep those beauties looking and feeling great for years to come.
Time to break out your floggers for the next section as we'll start with basic throws and move into more advanced throws like wrapping with intent, alternative flogger uses, and even how to florentine! That's right, even you can do those fancy moves you see the pro's using in the dungeon! We'll go over the basic 4 count throw, a 6 count throw, and the reverse 4 count! The class will finish of with a demonstration of using florentine throws on a person, including the 8 count throw.
So come on out with your floggers and questions for what is sure to be a fantastic time!
Under Your Skin: Tips and Tricks for Leather Love and Care
Leather. You know you like it and you want more of it in your life; so what do you need to know about this wonderful material? In this portion of the class we'll cover different types of leather, tanning processes, what different kinds of leather are good for, and basic leather toy construction.
Next, learn the how-to's of taking care of your leather goods; whether they're toys, clothing, or boots, this section has you covered. Attendees should have their own leather care supplies including saddle soap, a shaving brush, a can of Huberd's Shoe Grease, a can of polish, pantyhose, and buffing brush.
The class finishes everything off with a massive Q&A. If you've ever wanted to know anything about leather, this is the class to be at! Bring your leather, your questions, and a notepad as we're sure to cover lots of info!
Getting Kinky With Chronic Pain and Disability
Living with chronic pain and disabilities can be anything from a mild nuisance one must deal with every day up to something that is downright crippling. Add to that the idea of physical activity involved in sex and/or kink activity and you end up with one daunting task; so how do we feel sexy and desired during this time? Not only will we cover how to keep that spark, we'll also cover ways to express ourselves and communicate in regards to our needs, wants, and desires, as well as the requests for adjustments related to our chronic pain and dis/ability status.
Speaking of adjustments and making accommodations, how do we do that in public play spaces and conventions without drawing unwanted attention or feeling like we're asking too much of our hosts? We'll discuss common problems in play spaces, ways we can talk to our local space owners about creating accommodations, and subtle ways we can make play possible when we're in temporary spaces.
Lastly, we'll have time to share stories about our own successes and learning opportunities regarding any number of other chronic pain and disability related problems. As someone living with Fibromyalgia, I'll cover things from what it is like to live with chronic pain to what it is like to live with someone who has it; I'll also talk about what it's like personally to be the dominant partner of someone with their own chronic pain and disability issues. There will also be information given out that can help turn a disability into something that makes a relationship stronger from both sides of the slash.
Relationship Communication Skills
Ever wonder how to get the most from your relationship? Do you watch other relationships and think to yourself “that’s what I want! How do I get that?” Whether you're starting a new relationship, or maintaining an existing one, this class is for you!
We’ll cover skills that can help when your relationship feels like it’s going south, as well as keep you flying high when things are great. You’ll learn effective communication skills, how to get what you need (and want), and so much more. We'll also discuss skills related to making sure that you're not just listening (or being listened to) but actually understanding the conversation, even when things get heated, so no one is left feeling unheard.
Next we'll discuss negotiation skills and why it's important for more than just setting up scenes for play. While negotiation for play is still vital to effective and fulfilling scenes, it's just as important for our relationships, an area where negotiating is commonly overlooked due to assumptions.
Lastly the class will explore the concepts of time/timing and self-reflection. Though we can't make time stop, we can do better about making effective use of what we have, the same being true of self-reflection and self-care.
Be sure to bring a pen and a notepad as this class is sure to cover lots of information!
Adding Structure To Your Relationship(s) Through Paperwork Fetishism
Do you have a paperwork fetish? Does the idea of writing things down, making them "more official," give you a burst of excitement and a twinkle in your eyes? This class is perfect for you!
First we'll cover two types of letters: Letters of Introduction, and Letters of Intent. While both can be very similar in that they offer a means of introducing yourself and your goals to another person, once you understand the differences in function and when they're used it'll be hard to mix them up again.
Next, we'll discuss the more commonly known "Needs and Wants List" and just how complex this seemingly simple document can be. During this time we'll delve into gaining a better understanding between the difference of needing and wanting something, along with how to relay both to your partner(s). We'll also cover additional categories that I add to my Needs and Wants Lists that really turn this document into the swiss army knife of documents.
Lastly, have you ever wondered how the butler always knows everything in movies? Or perhaps do you envy the organizational skills of media's best personal assistants? In this last section of the class we'll cover the tips and tricks to get it all done using butler books! This handy tool can help you organize everything from day to day activities to special events and even household chores. Bring a fresh notebook for this class as you're sure to want to make your own mock-up for later! (Stickers, bright colored pens, and sticky notes are encouraged as well)
Bridging the Age Gap in Kink Communities
Decades ago, before the time of the internet and swiping left or right to find a date, long before “50 Shades” took social media by storm, the world of kink and BDSM looked vastly different than the one we see today. Skills that used to take years to master in private parties are now researched and absorbed in a matter of moments thanks to today’s information sharing capabilities. When these two worlds come together though, the TNG (18-35 year olds) and the TOG (40+ year olds), they often seem to mix like oil and water.
In this class we’ll discuss why this happens and how to bridge the gaps between the two generations by starting with an examination of preconceived notions of ageism that get ingrained in us through common societal interactions. We'll continue to examine ageist ideas within us all with a comparison of generational differences and how they affect our mentality towards other generations, and the effect that has on our interactions within kink communities.
The class will finish off with a discussion about personal experiences, ways we overcame ageism, as well as learning moments, and how we can be most effective in fixing these situations so that all sides will engage in the conversation.
This class is sure to spark lots of conversation so come out with an open mind!
How To Be A Dungeon Monitor
Interested in working at your local dungeon/event? Need to find staff for your place? Join us for an intensive all about what it takes to be a dungeon monitor. As someone who has volunteer at their local dungeon roughly 16+ hours a week, 52 weeks a year, for nearly 12 years, I've seen just about everything and want to help you be the best DM you can be, or how to find and train the best ones you can.
We'll discuss needs of the physical dungeon space, whether it's a permanent one, a regular takeover event, or the occassional party. In the time of covid it's important to also take into account how to keep staff and customers as safe as we can while monitoring the usual needs of the dungeon such as where does the line of customer service vs safety fall for your space and surrounding municipalities.
Next we'll cover general DM training: what to watch for, when to step in, and when to leave people be. Also, how do we make up the difference between customers who know more than the staff, setting aside ego, and best practices for continuing education and growth.
The class will contain plenty of time to share stories, ask "what if" questions, and compare practices, so make sure to bring a method to take notes!
Aristotle once said "those who know, do. Those that understand, teach." When it comes to BDSM and kink education, the sentiment holds true and is often the difference between learning a skill, and making a connection. As an educator we have an opportunity to make those connections whether we are giving a quick "how to" demo or teaching a packed hall.
How do we take our passion for learning and teaching and make it more than a hobby? In this class we'll cover going from skill instruction/demos to class creation, and how to promote yourself as an educator to get bookings and maintaining work as a professional educator.
“If You Want Blood (You've Got It)"
Are you a fan of blood? Need more of it in your play? Well, if you want it, you've got it!
Before we get into the play itself, we'll cover the nitty-gritty of handling blood and sharp-pointy things. This portion of the class is essential to understanding blood-borne pathogens, personal protective equipment, and disposal techniques. We'll also cover what to do when accidents happen, because you never want to hear "oops" mid-scene.
Next we will move onto the basics of needle play! From straight sticks to "pain buttons" and so much more, this section is all about turning your bottom into your own personal pin-cushion. This portion finishes off with a variety of ways to get the most blood when removing needles.
Want more blood? Good! It's time for scalpel cuttings, both quick and decorative. Whether you're looking to simply make them bleed or to turn your bottom into a bloody canvas, this section has just what you're looking for with scalpel-play. We'll also cover a couple alternative toys that leave cutting marks and make a bloody mess.
The finale of our class will be blood cupping! Make sure to brush up on your fire-cupping skills before this section as we're diving head first into applying cups to the wounds we've created for maximum blood pull. Lastly, hopefully there are no weak stomachs in the crowd as we paint the skin red with our freshly obtained blood.
You want blood? You got it!
Fantastic Foundations of Flagellation: Everything You Need to Know About Flogging!
Love flagellation? Come to the class where we'll cover everything you need to know about one of the most versatile kink toys out there! As the creator of award-winning floggers, we'll cover what to look for in high quality floggers and how to get the most for your money. Next, we'll cover flogger safety, strike zones, scene basics, and bruise care so you can take your play from mild to wild with confidence. We'll also cover basic flogger care so you can keep those beauties looking and feeling great for years to come.
Time to break out your floggers for the next section as we'll start with basic throws and move into more advanced throws like wrapping with intent, alternative flogger uses, and even how to florentine! That's right, even you can do those fancy moves you see the pro's using in the dungeon! We'll go over the basic 4 count throw, a 6 count throw, and the reverse 4 count! The class will finish of with a demonstration of using florentine throws on a person, including the 8 count throw.
So come on out with your floggers and questions for what is sure to be a fantastic time!
Under Your Skin: Tips and Tricks for Leather Love and Care
Leather. You know you like it and you want more of it in your life; so what do you need to know about this wonderful material? In this portion of the class we'll cover different types of leather, tanning processes, what different kinds of leather are good for, and basic leather toy construction.
Next, learn the how-to's of taking care of your leather goods; whether they're toys, clothing, or boots, this section has you covered. Attendees should have their own leather care supplies including saddle soap, a shaving brush, a can of Huberd's Shoe Grease, a can of polish, pantyhose, and buffing brush.
The class finishes everything off with a massive Q&A. If you've ever wanted to know anything about leather, this is the class to be at! Bring your leather, your questions, and a notepad as we're sure to cover lots of info!
Getting Kinky With Chronic Pain and Disability
Living with chronic pain and disabilities can be anything from a mild nuisance one must deal with every day up to something that is downright crippling. Add to that the idea of physical activity involved in sex and/or kink activity and you end up with one daunting task; so how do we feel sexy and desired during this time? Not only will we cover how to keep that spark, we'll also cover ways to express ourselves and communicate in regards to our needs, wants, and desires, as well as the requests for adjustments related to our chronic pain and dis/ability status.
Speaking of adjustments and making accommodations, how do we do that in public play spaces and conventions without drawing unwanted attention or feeling like we're asking too much of our hosts? We'll discuss common problems in play spaces, ways we can talk to our local space owners about creating accommodations, and subtle ways we can make play possible when we're in temporary spaces.
Lastly, we'll have time to share stories about our own successes and learning opportunities regarding any number of other chronic pain and disability related problems. As someone living with Fibromyalgia, I'll cover things from what it is like to live with chronic pain to what it is like to live with someone who has it; I'll also talk about what it's like personally to be the dominant partner of someone with their own chronic pain and disability issues. There will also be information given out that can help turn a disability into something that makes a relationship stronger from both sides of the slash.
Relationship Communication Skills
Ever wonder how to get the most from your relationship? Do you watch other relationships and think to yourself “that’s what I want! How do I get that?” Whether you're starting a new relationship, or maintaining an existing one, this class is for you!
We’ll cover skills that can help when your relationship feels like it’s going south, as well as keep you flying high when things are great. You’ll learn effective communication skills, how to get what you need (and want), and so much more. We'll also discuss skills related to making sure that you're not just listening (or being listened to) but actually understanding the conversation, even when things get heated, so no one is left feeling unheard.
Next we'll discuss negotiation skills and why it's important for more than just setting up scenes for play. While negotiation for play is still vital to effective and fulfilling scenes, it's just as important for our relationships, an area where negotiating is commonly overlooked due to assumptions.
Lastly the class will explore the concepts of time/timing and self-reflection. Though we can't make time stop, we can do better about making effective use of what we have, the same being true of self-reflection and self-care.
Be sure to bring a pen and a notepad as this class is sure to cover lots of information!
Adding Structure To Your Relationship(s) Through Paperwork Fetishism
Do you have a paperwork fetish? Does the idea of writing things down, making them "more official," give you a burst of excitement and a twinkle in your eyes? This class is perfect for you!
First we'll cover two types of letters: Letters of Introduction, and Letters of Intent. While both can be very similar in that they offer a means of introducing yourself and your goals to another person, once you understand the differences in function and when they're used it'll be hard to mix them up again.
Next, we'll discuss the more commonly known "Needs and Wants List" and just how complex this seemingly simple document can be. During this time we'll delve into gaining a better understanding between the difference of needing and wanting something, along with how to relay both to your partner(s). We'll also cover additional categories that I add to my Needs and Wants Lists that really turn this document into the swiss army knife of documents.
Lastly, have you ever wondered how the butler always knows everything in movies? Or perhaps do you envy the organizational skills of media's best personal assistants? In this last section of the class we'll cover the tips and tricks to get it all done using butler books! This handy tool can help you organize everything from day to day activities to special events and even household chores. Bring a fresh notebook for this class as you're sure to want to make your own mock-up for later! (Stickers, bright colored pens, and sticky notes are encouraged as well)
Bridging the Age Gap in Kink Communities
Decades ago, before the time of the internet and swiping left or right to find a date, long before “50 Shades” took social media by storm, the world of kink and BDSM looked vastly different than the one we see today. Skills that used to take years to master in private parties are now researched and absorbed in a matter of moments thanks to today’s information sharing capabilities. When these two worlds come together though, the TNG (18-35 year olds) and the TOG (40+ year olds), they often seem to mix like oil and water.
In this class we’ll discuss why this happens and how to bridge the gaps between the two generations by starting with an examination of preconceived notions of ageism that get ingrained in us through common societal interactions. We'll continue to examine ageist ideas within us all with a comparison of generational differences and how they affect our mentality towards other generations, and the effect that has on our interactions within kink communities.
The class will finish off with a discussion about personal experiences, ways we overcame ageism, as well as learning moments, and how we can be most effective in fixing these situations so that all sides will engage in the conversation.
This class is sure to spark lots of conversation so come out with an open mind!
How To Be A Dungeon Monitor
Interested in working at your local dungeon/event? Need to find staff for your place? Join us for an intensive all about what it takes to be a dungeon monitor. As someone who has volunteer at their local dungeon roughly 16+ hours a week, 52 weeks a year, for nearly 12 years, I've seen just about everything and want to help you be the best DM you can be, or how to find and train the best ones you can.
We'll discuss needs of the physical dungeon space, whether it's a permanent one, a regular takeover event, or the occassional party. In the time of covid it's important to also take into account how to keep staff and customers as safe as we can while monitoring the usual needs of the dungeon such as where does the line of customer service vs safety fall for your space and surrounding municipalities.
Next we'll cover general DM training: what to watch for, when to step in, and when to leave people be. Also, how do we make up the difference between customers who know more than the staff, setting aside ego, and best practices for continuing education and growth.
The class will contain plenty of time to share stories, ask "what if" questions, and compare practices, so make sure to bring a method to take notes!